SolaDunn's top 5 styling tips for first dates and meetings..........

Either we're going out on our very first date, meeting up with in-laws or beaus friends - we all can attest to how a little intimidating and overwhelming the experience is or can be. That sudden rush of adrenaline through your body, heartbeat doubling up, sweaty feet and palms, that little voice in your head constantly telling you you're not the one amongst other crazy thoughts - boy! Don't we wish we could just pass! *straight face* 

Thing is, whatever the next chapter is from there, your 'first' appearance matters or rather, goes a long way in determining how you would be welcomed/accepted that particular day (as they say, first impressions lasts longest). So for this reason, i've decided to write on my top 5 styling tips to guide you towards that 'almighty' day. Lol!

The most important thing to have at the back of your mind (particularly at this part of the world, Africa/NIGERIA to be precise) is that MODESTY is Key! Not just in appearance but in attitude as well.

Note that your beau, his friends and in-laws are still going to be seeing a lot of you (God willing) so don't worry if you have to let go of one or two of your most favorite apparel. 

Either you're meeting up with your husband to-be parents/family, going out on a first date or your first introduction to your boyfriends peeps, here are a few styling tips you should take note of

1. Wear a dress - it is highly important you look as feminine as possible. If you're like me (pants freak), this might be a little difficult but c'mon now, its only for a day! Also, when I say 'dress' - its not just any type of dress. Make sure you wear dresses with sleeves (short, three quarter or long) and ensure they are knee length or a couple of inches below the knee. Stay off sleeveless and bodycon dresses. They could send the wrong message. No skirts and tops, pants, jumpsuits or rompers! No cleavages, okay maybe a little. It may cost you a couple of bucks but invest in a really nice piece. . Shhhh.....he'll pay for it later. Lol!

2. Wear subtle makeup - Ensure to go easy on the eye-shadows, foundation, powder and particularly lipsticks. Never wear red lipstick! I highly recommend a soft smokey eye and nude lips. Wear light foundation regardless of your acmes (they are still gonna be seeing a lot of them later on now, wouldn't they, lol) and if possible, excuse the fake lashes for just that day. OMG Sola, am gonna be too exposed you say! Don't worry, if there's anything I've learnt about beauty, CONFIDENCE is sexy! Checkout my barely there makeup routine post to guide you. You may also look-up celebrities like Gabrielle union, Christina Milian and Megan Good for clues on how to pull this off.

3. Go easy on the heels - since our theme for the occasion is modesty, I'd suggest you wear shoes that are not more than 4 inches regardless of how tall or short you are. Sky high stilettos could send the wrong signals so walk majestically in your pumps! Don't wear loud colors too, opt for blacks and neutrals. Don't wear boots!

4. Hair - As an African woman (naija girl), I would recommend you wear braids or weaving. You know, something your scalp can show through (believe me, men love that). However, for some of us who are weave addicts (lol), do not let your hair 'all out there'. Do a sweet top knot or pony tail, those two are very girly and beautiful. Please, i repeat, PLEASE stay away from colored extensions and overly loud hair except you're miss Halima Abubakar okay!

5. Accessories - oh my favorite! Am sure by now, a lot of you would know am a lover of 'understated accessorizing'. Choose a vocal point and play around that. Be it a statement necklace, ring, earrings or bangle - remember to choose just one. Do not wear anklets! Also, if you have a navel piercing like me, take the ring off so as to avoid any form of 'hugging' accidents (if you know what I mean) *winks*

Now see below a combination of all these essentials put together as worn by very classy women like Kate Middleton and Genevieve Nnaji.

You looking like this, not so bad right! I know we all want to look all glamed up and drop dead gorgeous that day but a classy ensemble such as this isn't bad. Leave more to the imagination!

Always remember, in fashion/beauty - less is always more (trust me). So, be bold, be confident, be beautiful, be classy, be sophisticated and most importantly, BE A LADY. Portray good manners and don't talk too much - no matter how interesting the conversation gets.

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Love,

SolaDunn.